Relatives' Heartache Regarding Coastal Erosion Threatening Coastal Norfolk Graves
Loved ones whose relatives buried in resting places vulnerable to shoreline retreat say that indecision over how to tackle the issue is creating avoidable anguish about the final resting places of their departed family.
An Impending Danger to Historic Churchyards
The council have identified three burial grounds in the communities of Happisburgh, Mundesley, and Trimingham as being in danger of being consumed by the ocean in the next few generations.
A newly published study on the issue details a series of options, from doing nothing to disinterring bodies and relocating them in more secure sites. Authorities maintain it is for the community to decide how to proceed.
“At the moment we’re in limbo. It causes me distress. My parents intended this to be their final resting place, but it isn’t going to be because of the sea.”
Projections indicate at least part of one churchyard could fall into the waves in the next 80 years, but some residents fear it will happen far earlier. “I think it’s got under 20 years, if you look at what’s occurred in the last 30 years,” a farmer stated.
Haunted by the Ghosts of Eccles
One resident recalled a school trip to the neighbouring settlement of Eccles, which has almost entirely vanished into the water, along with its church and graveyard.
“It was possible to see human remains,” she said. “Certain people hold this idealized notion that people’s remains will just get carried away to sea. They won’t. People will take bones as mementos and go grave robbing looking for treasures. That is completely undignified.”
“I fear that the same thing that happened at Eccles will happen at Happisburgh and there’ll be bones on the beach. I’d be appalled by that.”
A Paratrooper's Resting Place in Jeopardy
Along the shoreline lies the grave of a ex-soldier killed while serving overseas. His mother expressed she could not sleep after discovering her son’s grave might one day be relocated.
“It does trouble me to think this won’t be his permanent home,” she said. “For us it’s an significant place to go.”
In her view, new interments should cease but says it is too soon to exhume existing graves. “What I would choose for now is to take no action and closely monitor, but an timely resolution must be made when a critical moment has been reached.”
Searching for Solutions and Certainty
An absence of agreement over when and how to handle the challenge has left grieving relatives feeling frustrated and worried.
Some want more sea defences to delay the unavoidable loss and to allow burials to proceed for now. Others contend the time for relocation is drawing near.
“The situation is very emotional,” said one relative. “The council’s report was really good, but now there’s uncertainty about how it is taken forward. And everybody is washing their hands over who is responsible.”
A local official said the graveyards were under the care of the church authorities. “Ultimately it is down to them to choose the direction to take. Our role is here to assist them through that journey with residents.”
It was also stated there was ample time to consider all the choices. “We are talking many years before it starts to be lost.”
“Currently, there exists no unified opinion on what should happen yet. It requires good local conversations to find the right solutions for each community.”
The prospect of the loss of the historic sites was described as one of “profound sorrow for the area,” but faith leaders also spoke of a doctrine in life after death, offering a spiritual viewpoint on the temporal loss of sacred ground.